Permission to Be Impatient
Have you ever wanted to move forward with something so badly, but the timing simply wasn’t right? I’ve found myself becoming rather impatient lately. We all see impatience differently, and it’s typically viewed as a negative trait. But I’m the type of person who thinks that maybe, just maybe, being impatient at times is actually a good thing.
Being impatient with our position in life can motivate us in the areas of personal development and growth. I’d even argue that impatience can be a driving force—one that propels us to meet goals far beyond our original intentions.
Everyone has a different level of personal drive. Some people have an almost endless amount of energy that fuels them, while others operate at a slower pace. When someone comes across as impatient, I often feel it reveals more about their ambition than their attitude. It says they choose action over complacency and refuse to tolerate stagnation or laziness.
We can even argue that impatience gives us momentum. And with momentum, we can reach audacious goals, fueled by a fear of mediocrity and a desire to step outside our comfort zones.
Being impatient about where we are in life shows that we’re paying attention to learning opportunities and staying focused on our goals. It may also indicate that we’re brave enough to make bold moves or take massive action. When the pieces of the puzzle aren’t fitting together, impatience pushes us to look for alternative paths. It becomes part of the process—refining our goals, adapting our approach, redirecting our strategies, and ultimately achieving more.
Impatient people recognize when things aren’t as they should be. They know their situation can improve, based on the expectations they have for themselves. Belief in our abilities and gifts is vital to our progression. We must see ourselves as examples for others to follow, and being impatient with our direction in life can help us do just that. When people see you taking action on your goals, it motivates them to do the same. It shows that you believe in your future—one where optimism and urgency pull you toward the goals you’ve set.
Consider this:
What drives you to better yourself?
What are you learning that connects back to your goals?
What gifts or abilities are you offering to others who need support?
Call it what you will, but impatience is not a negative trait. It’s the understanding that our situation—whatever it may be—can become better. We can go through life with a “good enough” attitude, or we can get impatient and envision something greater. If you’re focused on your goals and committed to becoming a better version of yourself, I give you permission to be impatient.
I hope you’re having an amazing week!
